I don’t know if you have ever heard the song by Tim McGraw called “Humble and Kind,” but I love it. So many things written in the song could make us a better person if we would apply them to our daily lives. The title itself would be a good starting place for many of us.
As we know, every story and idea has a beginning, and that brings me to “parenting.” A child born with ‘humble beginnings’ has a better chance of becoming a humble and kind adult.
Parenting is a lot of trial and error. An error can only be made through trial, and success only comes through trying. Since trying is a word of action, that is proof enough to me that parenting requires action, and action requires doing.
I’m sure you have heard at least once or twice a parent comment on how their child never talks to them about anything or how they never come to them about anything, even though they are in the house and the child can come to them any time. Maybe you’ve heard parents say, “How would I know they were sick? They never tell me.”
I have my own idea about such a statement. Have you as the parent ever perceived that the child might appreciate you coming to them. That small step would show that you cared, and sometimes a child won’t go to a parent because they feel like the parent doesn’t care. Sad thought, but true.
Some children have been fortunate enough to have been shown the importance of communication, one-on-one time and the importance of being kind and being appreciated.
If you are the parent who waits for you child to come to you and you finally realize you have never considered approaching them to be an option, now can be the appropriate time to be humble and kind and go to them first.
As I’ve said so many times, “As long as there is life, there is hope.” Of course, I’ve also said, “What doesn’t kill you makes you stronger,” and, “Laughter is the best medicine.” Being a person of many words and having a talent for talking, I have said many things. Ha!
I hope you will get a chance to hear the song, “Humble and Kind.” Better yet, take the time to request the song on WGOL-AM 920 or 100.7 FM. I suggest you listen to the lyrics of “Humble and Kind.” Even if you don’t prefer country music, it really could make a difference and enhance the person you are or inspire you to strive to be a better you!
Let’s all take action to be the beset we can be, whether parents or non-parents. Until next time, as you all know by now, this is just “My Take on This.”
